May 5, 2026

We’ve seen a lot of change in the past few years; some things have happened that we could’ve probably never imagined a decade ago. I hope that I what I share will make people really think why they are doing what they are doing and ask themselves if it’s helpful or hurtful.

When I worked in the clinics, it was brought to my attention very clearly that there were children, as young as preschool, coming in as a gender opposite of what they were born. I found they would go through a series of counseling sessions to make sure they really wanted to be a different gender than what they were born. My mind was blown!

I remember having a meeting one day with nurses and doctors and I brought up the question of why we had to call parents to have an underage child being seen for a simple cold YET if they were being seen for STD tests or pregnancies, we weren’t to contact the parent. How backwards! How foolish this was! It made no sense. A nurse assured me later that they go through a lot of counseling to make sure and they can’t start the process of surgically transforming their bodies until age 12. I then asked, “did you know what you wanted to do when you were 18, let alone when you were 12?’ She thought for a moment and said I made a good point and that no, she did not know what she wanted to do.

Don’t you think if we didn’t know what we wanted to do at that age, there is no way a toddler knows what they want to do or be?!?! These decisions are the responsibilities of the parents. The parents, not the children, are making these choices, and it is allowed and even encouraged. I have seen parents change their child, all for “fame” and “money”. I have seen a mom speak of how she would sexually abuse her child if they did not comply with what was needed to be done to keep them as their new gender. This was shown publicly on television and most the world saw this as okay. Click here to view this sick conversation seen as normal.

If you would like to think these toddlers are making these choices all on their own then think about the many babies being born “gender nuteral”? Are people going to say these babies made these choices? No, their parents are having them grow up as an “it” until they get old enough (toddler?) to decide what they want to be! This is WRONG! This is going to cause such confusion and suicide rates will get higher and higher.

Then, all of a sudden, “they” is considered a gender. My first thought is, “do people really not know their grammar?” My guess is that is not being taught much in school anymore either because why is knowing your pronouns necessary?!? It’s obvious these people don’t get grammar. The correct term if a person doesn’t want to be considered a he or a she, is an it. That would be the correct grammar.

This is absolutely out of control! People are wearing pins that say “they/them”, people are signing their names. “He/him”, “she/her”. I usually can tell if a person is male or female. To encourage this way of living is super unhealthy mentally. People are getting fired for not using correct pronouns! This is beyond ridiculousness!

The sad part of all this is something maybe not many have thought about. Do these people using the pronouns, “they/them” realize that they are calling themselves “more than one” or “a group of people”. So one person is acting as if they are taking on multiple people. Do people not realize how sick this is?!? Do they not understand that there are people out there that wish they didn’t have to deal with multiple personalities in their body?!? Do the people who wear a they’/them pin understand schizophrenia? I don’t think they do or they would not do this.

We are teaching the next generation and the generations to come that anything can happen, that they can do what is right in their own eyes. When we do this, we will eventually have complete chaos. What we do affects those around us. We are already seeing that in some places babies can be killed up to a month old post birth for any reason! This seems absolutely absurd as back in the 70s science couldn’t prove to the world that when a baby was in the womb that they were anything more than a “blob of flesh”, as the 90s came, when you wanted to keep the baby, it was called a baby and when it was inconvenient it was still just a blob of flesh. As time went on, science showed at all the stages of life showing that at conception, there was life! Now, since 2022, we have seen people say, “it’s your right to MURDER your baby!” People KNOW what it is and yet still say it’s a woman’s choice and it’s okay. Our world has become desensitized!

Overall, we are catering by having single bathrooms that have to say “all genders” instead of just having a single bathroom that says “bathroom”. We have everything in rainbows which I personally love the rainbow because it was used to remind us of God’s promise to never flood the earth again. This year, I go into even a pet store and see rainbow things for dogs. I personally have a problem with pronouns when it comes to my dogs as I get the male and female mixed up at times but come on, our animals aren’t making these choices to be something they are not. When I have an animal neutered or spayed, we have to know whether they are a male or female to do the correct surgery. The clothing stores are catering to gender neutral. It is in your face and if you don’t play along, because you see the danger in it, then you must be racist.

This is completely out of hand and needs to stop. We are to be who God created us to be, simply male or female, both beautiful creations in a beautiful array of colors. And do you realize when you affirm a child that they weren’t born correctly, you are taking any confidence they had and smashing it. It is no longer about feeling insecure about how you may look but that you should be ashamed of what people can’t see and doctors are agreeing to all this….all for fame and money.

If you wish to change your identity when you are 18, well then do what you feel you must but we must stop raising this next generation as something they aren’t as this creates so much confusion. When I see parents doing this, it is because they didn’t get the gender they wanted so they will encourage their child to be who they want them to be.

A great, or terrible, example is when I was working at the clinic one evening, a girl came in with her father. He said her given name so I could look her up but made clear to me that her new name was a boy’s name and she was a he. I was blown away. She was about ten years old. After her appointment, I pulled the sticker basket out for her to choose a couple stickers. Guess what she picked? She picked “girl” stickers! She looked sad coming and going. This is so wrong! The parents need mental help!

As you read and share this blog, I ask that you please think about what this is doing to our culture. We are creating a society of complete confusion. If we continue to live doing what is right in our own eyes, without any kind of moral compass, what will our society be like? Will “everything goes” be the norm? Are we training our society to not know who we are anymore?

Am I Conformed to the culture or being transformed for the kingdom? 

A.W. Tozer, in Knowledge of the Holy, says it like this: 

“Until we have seen ourselves as God see us, we are not likely to be much disturbed over conditions around us as long as they do not get so far out of hand as to threaten our comfortable way of life. We have learned to live with unholiness and have come to look upon it as the natural and expected thing”.