anxiety · blessings · contentment · Created for Commitment · faith · Family · intentional living · life lessons · Parenting · Salvation · spiritual health

Embracing the Proverbs 31 Woman: Part Seven

March 28, 2026

Strength and majesty are her clothing and she smiles at the future

verse 25….

How can strength and majesty be compared to clothing? Just as our clothes are visible, are we embodying strength and majesty through. We should live in a way that reflects God’s Spirit within us. A tattoo my son has, “He must increase and I must decrease,” serves as a reminder to let God shine through us and not let our human flaws dominate.

It can be tempting to abandon strength and majesty during life’s chaos and challenges. However, these difficult moments offer the best opportunity to embody these qualities, transforming our outlook and positively impacting those around us.

Wearing strength and majesty is about persistence, not perfection. It involves recognizing our imperfections while allowing the Spirit to guide us, enhancing our lives and inspiring hope in others. If someone fails to understand who the Lord is and the comfort He gives us through His Spirit, it can be all too easy for anxiety and worry about the chaos of the world to dominate our thoughts, words, and actions. 

This reminds me of a time when we were at a concert, and a tornado struck, causing the lights to go out. Everyone began using their phones to locate one another in the crowd of hundreds. 

When we found my daughter, she was frightened and in tears. I asked her what was wrong, and she expressed her fear of the storm. I asked how this situation differed from any other tornado or storm we had experienced, to which she replied that she didn’t know. 

I immediately understood the source of her fear; she had witnessed others—adults, children, and teens—panicking, which made her feel scared that something bad was going to happen. I reassured her that we don’t usually take cover when we hear a siren and that this storm was no different. 

She quickly realized that she was safe, understanding that it was the reactions of those around her that caused her panic. Soon, she returned to her cheerful self, comforted knowing that Dad and Mom were there to ensure everything was alright. We laughed and smiled knowing that God has our backs.

I find it so interesting that I have dealt with anxiety so much of my life, not knowing the name of it when I was younger, but the responses from me came from fear. The closer our world seems to getting to the end or me getting closer to heaven, I find I have much more excitement.

Instead of fear, I am excited seeing prophecy being fulfilled before my eyes. I have no need for worry; that is just a waste of good time. When we get Home, there will be no more pain or hard times. It will be the best day of my life when that day comes. Will it be your best day ever? Our Sunday is coming!

She opens her mouth in wisdom and instruction of lovingkindness is on her tongue

vs 26….

I often struggle with this, as I’ve opened my mouth and spoken foolishly more times than I can count. Lovingkindness has not always been on my tongue. Although our tongue is a tiny part of our body, it can wield immense power. As I’ve matured, I’ve gained more wisdom, and I pray for continued growth in that area.

Those who know me are aware that I can be quite chatty, but I’ve been making a conscious effort to listen. I want to learn from others and truly enjoy the world around me. I try to refrain from speaking unless it’s beneficial. When I do feel the need to contribute, I take a moment to pause and count to ten, allowing space for others to share their thoughts or continue speaking. I don’t need to have the first or last word.

Sometimes, our excitement or emotions can drive us to respond immediately. Many years ago, someone told me how much she appreciated that I was comfortable sitting in silence during our car rides. She admired people who could confidently embrace quiet moments without feeling the need to fill the space with noise. I often reflect on that, recognizing that I have displayed wisdom at various points in my life. Who knows? Maybe that was her polite way to tell me to, “shut up”. hahaha


Discover more from Proverbs31Misfit

Subscribe to get the latest posts sent to your email.

Leave a comment